omgosh..
can u believe it?
a pregnant man..
hmms..

“How does it feel to be a pregnant man? Incredible,” wrote Thomas Beatie, 34, from the Pacific North West of the United States, in the latest issue of the gay magazine The Advocate.

anws..
many ppl hav different views of it..
im quite neutral, it may sounds bizarre but its a blessing in disguise?
ppl perceive it as ridiculous..crazy..
but if u read his story..if de wife cant, he can, why not?
"He decided to carry a baby for his wife, Nancy, because she had a hysterectomy years ago."
comment made by someone,
"This is absolutely wonderful, congrats to the family and I think theres nothing wrong with this. a loving family trying to get children? how on earth could that be wrong"
Donovan Verhagen, Hilvarenbeek.

but its kinda true tt society may find it hard to believe-->its human nature
like how ppl judge g**s & l**..

but de bro said 1 pt..
Mr Beatie’s first successful insemination ended in a life-threatening ectopic pregnancy with triplets that required surgery, resulting in the loss of all his embryos and his right Fallopian tube. “When my brother found out about my loss, he said, ‘It’s a good thing that happened. Who knows what kind of monster it would have been?’,” he wrote.
monster..hmm..abit harsh..but it sounds so 怪胎(guaitai).. =x

here's the link..happy reading..haha..
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/article3628860.ece
its life..weird/interesting tings do happen.. 0.0
if a real man would b pregnant..tt mite b real disaster?
a wide eye opener instead.. =/

be sure to read de comments made..its interesting to see other ppl pt of view
let me quote some.. (over 100comments hitting 200 i guess o.o)
"I think this is amazing, a loving couple are doing all they can to have a child of their own to love and raise. Good luck to them, we could do with more families that put children and love over what society tells them is 'normal'."
Sarah H, Chester, UK

"My concern is for the father/mother health and the baby as well. .......
What will be the aftermath of someone who has taken so many drugs to turn into a man and then reverse the whole process in order to give birth? ........
In my opinion, they as a couple should protect the baby girl and not place her at the spot of all moral/rational/ethical/psychological/medical discussions and quarrels. It appears that they want their 15 minutes of glory... "
Ana, Mexico City, Mexico
true yeah? hmms..duno wad human's thinking..complicated..
i feel ke lian for the girl..imagine how she is going to be brought up..
the feeling of being "outcast" x.x
>de next comment abt it..people being narrow-minded/sensitive? refers to de outcast topic

"Boring. Why do people have to be so sensitive and embrace everything?
It's like being the only girl in a room full of adolescent boys.
This person was born a woman,and decided to become a man,surely that person,following that decision,forfeits all the 'perks' of woman hood.
Weird is a word (of many) I would use to sum this story up.
Mortified & disturbed are two others I'd wager the poor child will associate with his/her upbringing. "
Ash, USA, TX

"Im not sorry for this child. It seems like this little girl will be raised with all the love and care any child needs... My baby cousin was adopted by a gay married couple and she is the happiest child in the world and they love each other and her very much...
Its your right to have a child and to bear your own child. on the inside, he is built just like any other woman. Life is a miracle no matter how it is concieved. I wish the best to this couple and find it a noble thing that he carried the child since his wife couldnt, even around everyone who didnt know he was transgendered. I wish them the best of luck in the world. I have 2 children and they are a blessing. :-D"
Christina, harrisburg, pennsylvania
hmm..interesting yeah?gay married couple..at least for some countries they do recognise them..but..traditional ppl dun..but when they grow up how does the child will feel..

ooh..came across this..lol
"Wonderful. The universe again creates magic."
Ed, Sydney
and this xD
"When I was a young boy, I used to think that mothers give brith to daughters and father give birth to sons."
Bruce, KL

hehe..
machiam like debate sia..
haha..to ppl out thre reading esp sying,jin interesting rite..
at 1st..caught the news flash at ch5..but i didnt get de real story..
told my mum abt it..& she commented tt it mite b a female-male..
"how can a man be pregnant? muz b a female.."
den she was right..bei ta cai zhong..
cos i curious go search in internet =x
haha..tis comments links up to wad i said above o.o
"What makes a man a man. Is it his sexual organs? Is it the way a person carries itself? You can paint a apple orange but it still doesn't hide the fact that it is still an apple.
You could tell other people look at this apple orange, but the truth is it just still an apple painted orange. Thats how i feel about it. He is still a women no matter how you cut it. so where do they get off saying a man got pregnant. "
Aaron Johns, Fresno, CA

AND i totally agree with this..
"To the people using God for a weapon... that's just wrong.
I'm a Christian, and I know for a fact that He doesn't want His named to be used like you are using it. Saying "God is upset" is not a way to change people's mind about anything;
it will only make them angry.
On the topic, I do believe it will be difficult for the couple and the child, but I think they knew that going in to this, and even though it's strange, I want to wish them luck.
Children are a gift and there is nothing wrong with wanting one, even if the process of having one is a little different than the norm"
Lindsey, Atlanta, GA, USA
o.o..its like ridiculous..u like ppl using ur name & say other tings meh
and
"I am sick of people always using their own concept of God in order to pass judgement on those that they themselves don't understand. God says he accepts everyone, so why can't we?
In fact, he does clearly state "judge not, lest ye be judged."
Do you think that you can pass God's judgement test? Based upon these comments, I think not. Congratulations to the happy couple. May you have a very healthy baby, who brings you joy and happiness. I applaud your strength and resiliance. A lesson I believe everyone should embrace."
Nichole, Jacksonville, FL USA
its like..we shouldn't use God name in vain..like oh my "G**"
frm me>to some ppl commented and used God name and view others like its not normal..
hi!?!who are U to judge them like that especially to de 2nd comment made by
"This is not normal. I will not accept it and I will continue to teach my son that this is not right."
Lamecia, Nashville,
cos to ppl who dun believe in God..they will get irritated esp someone tryin to change their opinions..its up to each and everyone to believe in their own thing..
then they will make comments on christians..blah blah..
and they pass their own kind of view to ppl
thats how people judge one another based on their own thinking..tsktsk..
wads abnormal&norm,religion,races,etc..all are humans ma.. x.x
refering to comment below..
"Congrats... ... ...
I would like to address Lamecia from Nashville for a moment.
One of the main reasons kids are so cruel, and most adults for that matter, is because people like you RAISE them to not be tolerant of things that aren't "normal". Basically, whatever YOU deem to be different or "sick". Don't pass on hate and we have a shot at a better future. "
Teresa, Bergen County, New Jersey
"Life is tough and people are mean no matter the circumstance but you get through it so much better if you have a loving family. " commented by Darla, tampa, fl
but i guess de comment made by nicki, JAckson, usa/ mo "May God direct the Baby to one day understand the Truth and the way to heaven, and be open to learn the truth and his word!!!! May God change your hearts and open your eyes and help you, since you must be so lost!!!!!"
is quite true..but i guess she meant no harm by passing a remark tt she agrees with lemecia despites her Christian's thoughts commented above..
hope de baby can take de truth..cos some problems teens they somehow wish they were never born or something..
&AND! tis leads to those ppl studying early childhood..i tink there's one topic abt children having probs questioning themselves about their gender..
Con't> there's 1 comment made "As a lesbian who questions her own gender at points... ..."tho her remarks was tt this shouldn't be happening..its against the human law or how it goes against law like man shld b man & "men don't have babies" blah blah....

haha..debates..arguements..
no offences.. long post indeed... x.x
*ouch*too bad there's no IS slot left for socio psychology..
me is sort of a christian? not "hardcore" those kind
oops..i dun go to church as well =x
well..if i can..i mite stick to free-thinker..
but there might be a God out there..who knows..
why is there heaven and hell? made believe or real?
towards everything there is cause and effect..
the sky seems so boundless, carefree..
if the world is that perfect..will it be good?
hmms..heckcare?haha..

read de article dis morning abt miracle baby jolene..
pity her..but happy for her too..yups..
the world is round..(random but up to u to relate wads to it)

it kind of made me think about the true-based story i read..
sad story of a child being abuse when young..
he has a name..but reduced to being called IT..gosh!
treated as a slave in his hse.. -.-

back to my daily life..
erm..IS enrolment didnt seem smooth to me at all..
cant get into photography, no class of it at all =.=
haha..but it mite be a blessing in disguise tho..
rock n roll oso under music.. =D
then went to pitstop at raffles dis aftern..
played interesting games..took photos..
tmr gonna b my 1st day of work..
sad thing is tt ke is goin pulau ubin..
wanted to go but cant..
sunday having maternal family portrait photo taking..
total 18 ppl tgt ^^
okies...
tts all folks~

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omgosh..
can u believe it?
a pregnant man..
hmms..

“How does it feel to be a pregnant man? Incredible,” wrote Thomas Beatie, 34, from the Pacific North West of the United States, in the latest issue of the gay magazine The Advocate.

anws..
many ppl hav different views of it..
im quite neutral, it may sounds bizarre but its a blessing in disguise?
ppl perceive it as ridiculous..crazy..
but if u read his story..if de wife cant, he can, why not?
"He decided to carry a baby for his wife, Nancy, because she had a hysterectomy years ago."
comment made by someone,
"This is absolutely wonderful, congrats to the family and I think theres nothing wrong with this. a loving family trying to get children? how on earth could that be wrong"
Donovan Verhagen, Hilvarenbeek.

but its kinda true tt society may find it hard to believe-->its human nature
like how ppl judge g**s & l**..

but de bro said 1 pt..
Mr Beatie’s first successful insemination ended in a life-threatening ectopic pregnancy with triplets that required surgery, resulting in the loss of all his embryos and his right Fallopian tube. “When my brother found out about my loss, he said, ‘It’s a good thing that happened. Who knows what kind of monster it would have been?’,” he wrote.
monster..hmm..abit harsh..but it sounds so 怪胎(guaitai).. =x

here's the link..happy reading..haha..
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/article3628860.ece
its life..weird/interesting tings do happen.. 0.0
if a real man would b pregnant..tt mite b real disaster?
a wide eye opener instead.. =/

be sure to read de comments made..its interesting to see other ppl pt of view
let me quote some.. (over 100comments hitting 200 i guess o.o)
"I think this is amazing, a loving couple are doing all they can to have a child of their own to love and raise. Good luck to them, we could do with more families that put children and love over what society tells them is 'normal'."
Sarah H, Chester, UK

"My concern is for the father/mother health and the baby as well. .......
What will be the aftermath of someone who has taken so many drugs to turn into a man and then reverse the whole process in order to give birth? ........
In my opinion, they as a couple should protect the baby girl and not place her at the spot of all moral/rational/ethical/psychological/medical discussions and quarrels. It appears that they want their 15 minutes of glory... "
Ana, Mexico City, Mexico
true yeah? hmms..duno wad human's thinking..complicated..
i feel ke lian for the girl..imagine how she is going to be brought up..
the feeling of being "outcast" x.x
>de next comment abt it..people being narrow-minded/sensitive? refers to de outcast topic

"Boring. Why do people have to be so sensitive and embrace everything?
It's like being the only girl in a room full of adolescent boys.
This person was born a woman,and decided to become a man,surely that person,following that decision,forfeits all the 'perks' of woman hood.
Weird is a word (of many) I would use to sum this story up.
Mortified & disturbed are two others I'd wager the poor child will associate with his/her upbringing. "
Ash, USA, TX

"Im not sorry for this child. It seems like this little girl will be raised with all the love and care any child needs... My baby cousin was adopted by a gay married couple and she is the happiest child in the world and they love each other and her very much...
Its your right to have a child and to bear your own child. on the inside, he is built just like any other woman. Life is a miracle no matter how it is concieved. I wish the best to this couple and find it a noble thing that he carried the child since his wife couldnt, even around everyone who didnt know he was transgendered. I wish them the best of luck in the world. I have 2 children and they are a blessing. :-D"
Christina, harrisburg, pennsylvania
hmm..interesting yeah?gay married couple..at least for some countries they do recognise them..but..traditional ppl dun..but when they grow up how does the child will feel..

ooh..came across this..lol
"Wonderful. The universe again creates magic."
Ed, Sydney
and this xD
"When I was a young boy, I used to think that mothers give brith to daughters and father give birth to sons."
Bruce, KL

hehe..
machiam like debate sia..
haha..to ppl out thre reading esp sying,jin interesting rite..
at 1st..caught the news flash at ch5..but i didnt get de real story..
told my mum abt it..& she commented tt it mite b a female-male..
"how can a man be pregnant? muz b a female.."
den she was right..bei ta cai zhong..
cos i curious go search in internet =x
haha..tis comments links up to wad i said above o.o
"What makes a man a man. Is it his sexual organs? Is it the way a person carries itself? You can paint a apple orange but it still doesn't hide the fact that it is still an apple.
You could tell other people look at this apple orange, but the truth is it just still an apple painted orange. Thats how i feel about it. He is still a women no matter how you cut it. so where do they get off saying a man got pregnant. "
Aaron Johns, Fresno, CA

AND i totally agree with this..
"To the people using God for a weapon... that's just wrong.
I'm a Christian, and I know for a fact that He doesn't want His named to be used like you are using it. Saying "God is upset" is not a way to change people's mind about anything;
it will only make them angry.
On the topic, I do believe it will be difficult for the couple and the child, but I think they knew that going in to this, and even though it's strange, I want to wish them luck.
Children are a gift and there is nothing wrong with wanting one, even if the process of having one is a little different than the norm"
Lindsey, Atlanta, GA, USA
o.o..its like ridiculous..u like ppl using ur name & say other tings meh
and
"I am sick of people always using their own concept of God in order to pass judgement on those that they themselves don't understand. God says he accepts everyone, so why can't we?
In fact, he does clearly state "judge not, lest ye be judged."
Do you think that you can pass God's judgement test? Based upon these comments, I think not. Congratulations to the happy couple. May you have a very healthy baby, who brings you joy and happiness. I applaud your strength and resiliance. A lesson I believe everyone should embrace."
Nichole, Jacksonville, FL USA
its like..we shouldn't use God name in vain..like oh my "G**"
frm me>to some ppl commented and used God name and view others like its not normal..
hi!?!who are U to judge them like that especially to de 2nd comment made by
"This is not normal. I will not accept it and I will continue to teach my son that this is not right."
Lamecia, Nashville,
cos to ppl who dun believe in God..they will get irritated esp someone tryin to change their opinions..its up to each and everyone to believe in their own thing..
then they will make comments on christians..blah blah..
and they pass their own kind of view to ppl
thats how people judge one another based on their own thinking..tsktsk..
wads abnormal&norm,religion,races,etc..all are humans ma.. x.x
refering to comment below..
"Congrats... ... ...
I would like to address Lamecia from Nashville for a moment.
One of the main reasons kids are so cruel, and most adults for that matter, is because people like you RAISE them to not be tolerant of things that aren't "normal". Basically, whatever YOU deem to be different or "sick". Don't pass on hate and we have a shot at a better future. "
Teresa, Bergen County, New Jersey
"Life is tough and people are mean no matter the circumstance but you get through it so much better if you have a loving family. " commented by Darla, tampa, fl
but i guess de comment made by nicki, JAckson, usa/ mo "May God direct the Baby to one day understand the Truth and the way to heaven, and be open to learn the truth and his word!!!! May God change your hearts and open your eyes and help you, since you must be so lost!!!!!"
is quite true..but i guess she meant no harm by passing a remark tt she agrees with lemecia despites her Christian's thoughts commented above..
hope de baby can take de truth..cos some problems teens they somehow wish they were never born or something..
&AND! tis leads to those ppl studying early childhood..i tink there's one topic abt children having probs questioning themselves about their gender..
Con't> there's 1 comment made "As a lesbian who questions her own gender at points... ..."tho her remarks was tt this shouldn't be happening..its against the human law or how it goes against law like man shld b man & "men don't have babies" blah blah....

haha..debates..arguements..
no offences.. long post indeed... x.x
*ouch*too bad there's no IS slot left for socio psychology..
me is sort of a christian? not "hardcore" those kind
oops..i dun go to church as well =x
well..if i can..i mite stick to free-thinker..
but there might be a God out there..who knows..
why is there heaven and hell? made believe or real?
towards everything there is cause and effect..
the sky seems so boundless, carefree..
if the world is that perfect..will it be good?
hmms..heckcare?haha..

read de article dis morning abt miracle baby jolene..
pity her..but happy for her too..yups..
the world is round..(random but up to u to relate wads to it)

it kind of made me think about the true-based story i read..
sad story of a child being abuse when young..
he has a name..but reduced to being called IT..gosh!
treated as a slave in his hse.. -.-

back to my daily life..
erm..IS enrolment didnt seem smooth to me at all..
cant get into photography, no class of it at all =.=
haha..but it mite be a blessing in disguise tho..
rock n roll oso under music.. =D
then went to pitstop at raffles dis aftern..
played interesting games..took photos..
tmr gonna b my 1st day of work..
sad thing is tt ke is goin pulau ubin..
wanted to go but cant..
sunday having maternal family portrait photo taking..
total 18 ppl tgt ^^
okies...
tts all folks~