http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3100_how.html
that web brings me to a new insight..

the following,..
"The emotional reactions we have toward people, whether attraction or repulsion, is not a matter of choice. Love Bank balances cause them. Try "choosing" to be attracted to those you associate with some of your worst experiences -- it's almost impossible. Or try to feel repulsed by those associated with your best feelings. You do not decide whom you will like or dislike -- it's their association with your feelings, whether they have made Love Bank deposits or withdrawals, that determines your emotional reactions to them."

"When we are together we feel fulfilled, and when apart we feel lonely and incomplete."
is abstract from http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3200_love.html

lol..i think i think too much?
my past few days were hurtful..my heart is terribly in pain..
it feels like many knives are stabbing continously..
bleeding profusely..
thats why to fall in love is easy but to fall out of love is difficult

after i have thought through..
life is full of ups and downs..
& im not feeling that much pain now.. :)
but i know what i believe in..
and will stand by it no matter what..

the future is full of the unknown..
who knows what will happen tomorrow?
what if a car just bang pass,
my life is over..
so i have to learn to take care of myself..
to treasure everyone around me..
to live life to the fullest..
even tho im procrastinating alot of things..
(oops) lol

currently my thinking is that i have no goals
that's why im living my life aimlessly..
that's why i will encounter so many problems..

i like watching shows..
it shows how everyday life is..
(of cos not those preposterous that cant never happen in life)

i learn alot from him..
thats why is good to have friends around,
we all learn from each other.. :D

let nature take its course,
if its meant to be, it will be
but we also have to work towards it..

people can help you,
but you must first help yourself.

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http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3100_how.html
that web brings me to a new insight..

the following,..
"The emotional reactions we have toward people, whether attraction or repulsion, is not a matter of choice. Love Bank balances cause them. Try "choosing" to be attracted to those you associate with some of your worst experiences -- it's almost impossible. Or try to feel repulsed by those associated with your best feelings. You do not decide whom you will like or dislike -- it's their association with your feelings, whether they have made Love Bank deposits or withdrawals, that determines your emotional reactions to them."

"When we are together we feel fulfilled, and when apart we feel lonely and incomplete."
is abstract from http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3200_love.html

lol..i think i think too much?
my past few days were hurtful..my heart is terribly in pain..
it feels like many knives are stabbing continously..
bleeding profusely..
thats why to fall in love is easy but to fall out of love is difficult

after i have thought through..
life is full of ups and downs..
& im not feeling that much pain now.. :)
but i know what i believe in..
and will stand by it no matter what..

the future is full of the unknown..
who knows what will happen tomorrow?
what if a car just bang pass,
my life is over..
so i have to learn to take care of myself..
to treasure everyone around me..
to live life to the fullest..
even tho im procrastinating alot of things..
(oops) lol

currently my thinking is that i have no goals
that's why im living my life aimlessly..
that's why i will encounter so many problems..

i like watching shows..
it shows how everyday life is..
(of cos not those preposterous that cant never happen in life)

i learn alot from him..
thats why is good to have friends around,
we all learn from each other.. :D

let nature take its course,
if its meant to be, it will be
but we also have to work towards it..

people can help you,
but you must first help yourself.

Labels: love bank